Only one little slap but the ass is nice in those tights.
A woman’s desire for a naked over-the-knee spanking is twofold. Part of her wants to be wanted. She wants to belong to someone who really cares about her. Part of her wants to be disciplined, cleansed, and perhaps even healed.
It is only at a level of getting beyond physical pain that spanking has any meaning. Otherwise, the exercise is a parlor game of make-believe of daddy’s naughty little girl getting her bottom smacked for being very bad. A woman’s emotional risks in pretending are no greater than going to the doctor’s office, climbing up on the examination table, and putting her feet in the metal stirrups to have her private parts examined. Although exposed under the circumstances, she is not defenseless. She issteeled for the experience.
When a woman becomes vulnerable and women become naked when they want to be vulnerable she can feel whether or not she is loved. Her nudity is not so much a temptation for the man as a test of his character. Often, the woman is less aware of her state of undress as is a more naïve man. She sacrifices modesty for knowledge. After all, who or what a man truly is inside cannot be easily hidden from a naked woman!
The man who truly loves a woman is not always easy her. There is a passion within him that burns beyond lust. It compliments that of the woman in using her nakedness as a means to an end. The means is the spanking; the end is the relationship. So it is that the two can become one which is what the woman wants anyway.
Although a woman may hate the idea that she needs a spanking, she will also often feel the need to be punished wanting it to hurt and eventually despising a timid man she seeks an experience that goes beyond being transformed from naughty to nice.
For the man, spanking springs from a desire to have the woman wholly body and soul coupled with awareness that this is how to have her! The man’s involvement with the woman is not a business-like arrangement where one party can fire the other at will.
He wants this woman. He is active. She is passive, although she wants this man to have her. Together, they want each other.
Instead of seeking counseling or getting divorced, they work out their differences the old-fashioned way on a very intimate and personal level. (Women never boast about having faked it during a serious spanking!) In the process, the man goes from what the woman admits is required to what she knows is necessary to get through to her. The spanking goes:
from being erotic
past anger (That’s enough. #$%&@, what are you trying to do!)
through being punishment (Yes, Sir.)
to being a cleaning out of all sorts of emotional baggage that tumble out as a mixture of confessions and genuine crying.
Consequently, a wise man gives the woman getting spanked permissionto say all sorts of things that she would never dream of revealing otherwise. The permission is not so much explicit as in his willingness to listen and understand whatever anguish she releases. The wise man will not hold anything she says against her as she expels whatever demons haunt her mind.
If the man gets down deep enough inside her usually through a series of spankings that build upon the soreness in her bottom leftover from the last spanking inhibitions go out of the window. Her carefully crafted mystique her protective layers that keep just any man from getting too close to her get stripped from her. She is psychologically undressed.
She is no longer her own woman. When he is finished, she is so weak physically and psychologically that she can be destroyed by his words.
At this point, the man can make the woman anything he wants her to be. He can make her a strong wife, a weak woman, a prostitute anything. That is why women need to pick their men carefully. Because once a man taps into his natural power over a woman, she belongs to him.
Yet, if the man truly loves her, she feels joined in the ultimate consensual relationship.
I found this one and had to share. The caption for the photo read: “me and my best friends”
An Article From: http://www.sextoy.com/page/sextoycom/3369/Top-Techniques-to-Bring-Role-Playing-into-Your-Relationship.html
Whether you have been dating forever or just a few months, role playing can breathe some fresh life into your relationship. The same thing can get old after a while and you need to switch things up to keep the interest up and orgasms coming. And youd be surprised at how many couples engage in this type of fun. Here are 10 steps on how to be the captain and make it happen.
1. The first step would be to decide what type of role playing youd like to try. What are both of your fantasies? Discuss possible scenarios and what would turn you on. Perhaps, James Bond and the Russian spy he captures or the President and his sexpot secretary. Even playing doctor. There are so many choices. If you cant agree on a specific theme, you can both pick one and do them bothjust make sure your partner is OK with both.
2. Go shopping together to get your wardrobe and accessories. If you want to play nurse and patient, you can go to a place nurses buy their outfits. Have your girl act like shes really a nurse and shes buying clothes for workonly you two will know the real deal. Or go online and pick the items out together, while she sits on your lap or you two lie on the bed. Sextoy.com has tons of costumes and ways to dress up in the bedroom. And, costumes and props definitely make it more real and sexier.
3. Talk about what youre going to do before you embark on your adventure. You can make it loose or be specific. It might even be hot to write a script together. But, dont be reading from a script while youre in play mode. Glance at it before the action starts so you remember the key points. Its more about having fun and getting turned on, rather than memorizing your lines.
4. If either of you have boundaries or things youre uncomfortable with, now is the time to bring it up. Perhaps you are playing cops and robbers, but your playmate has issues with bondage and cuffs. Make sure to discuss these things first, before the action starts. You may even want to use a safe word, like RED for stop, or YELLOW for slow down.
5. If youve always wanted to have a three way, now might be a good time to make that happen. Lets say your fantasy is college professor and the young student who is hot for teacher. But, maybe you want to do this with two students. Ask your girl if she has a friend that can take part in your fantasy. If she says yes, youve just scored.
6. Decide if you are going to do this on a specific night or its going to be spontaneous. Planning ahead can be the better choice, because you can work out the way its going to go in your head and get turned on before the action even happens. It also fun to masturbate to the potential scenarioand you get off twice.
7. Once you start the games, remember to stay in character. For example if youre playing stripper and male customer in the strip club, you will really want to pretend you are that character. Your girl might swing around on the stripper pole for you or give you a lap dance, but the whole time shell be treating you like total stranger. You might talk dirty to her or whip out some cash. Really, go there in your head.
8. If you always use protection (yes, condoms), make sure to use these during role play. You can even let it be part of the games. If you and your girl are playing hooker and her John, make her put the condom on you before the action begins. This is also very important if youre not monogamous. Safety first.
9. Play freely and really get into your roles. Youre no longer Billy and Jenny. You are the lady of the house and the butler having an illicit affair (or whatever role turns you on). Let go of your inhibitions and embrace the fantasy. Youll be glad you did.
10. After its all over talk about what you liked and didnt like. This might be something you discuss another night, so you wont ruin the fantasy and that sex afterglow stuff. Figure out what worked and didnt work and what your next adventure will be.
Miss September 2009 Kim Phillips stops by Playboy TV’s wild Malibu Beach House and demonstrates proper spanking technique on fellow Playmate Jennifer Pershing
Sorry for the long stretch between posts this holiday season has been busy. But here is a fun video of a cute native girl asking to be spanked and then getting a few swats on her thong clad ass.
This chick let’s the guys take turns spanking her, kind of fun.